Is Spying on Teens Justified?

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Dear Jean:

I hope to know should parent spy on their teen? Thank you!

Jean responds:

Hi,

Thanks for visiting at www.parentingadolescents.com and for sending in a question.

I do not believe that parents should ever spy on their teens or pre-teens! I believe that young people have a right to their privacy, just as adults do. I also believe there is no need for spying: serious trouble will show itself in any number of ways. If you are concerned about whether your teen or pre-teen may be in serious trouble, I would suggest that you read our "About Counseling" and that you talk to your teen or pre-teen about your concerns. You may also find it useful to read some of the Q&A's archived at the web site on the topics of privacy and any other issues you may have a concern about (drugs, sex, alcohol, etc.).

Thanks again for your inquiry.

Jean.

Disclaimer: Ms. Waldridge's response to your question is intended to be educational and informative. It is not a substitute for face to face consultation or psychotherapy with a mental health professional.

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